High school graduation represents leaving the protected campus era and stepping into a new stage of life. Perhaps many people will leave their parents and family members at this time, step into an unfamiliar environment, and face a whole new set of challenges. At this time, we are no longer minors protected by the law, but adults who need to be responsible for our words and deeds. This transformation means that your personality is independent and you cannot continue to depend on the blessing of your parents. The carefree years of the past have become memories, and what awaits us afterwards is an unknown journey.
The people you meet in college are far more diverse than in high school. They can teach you a lot, and they can also subvert your limited cognition in the past. But at the same time, as the social circle expands, it is easy for people to question themselves when they come into contact with outstanding people. "Why am I not as good as others?" There is a saying on the Internet: When someone who is a little better than you appears, you will be jealous of him; will admire him. Jealousy is human nature, the most important thing is to adjust your mentality and learn to deal with negative emotions.
On the opposite side, we will also encounter some characters who make us resist. They may be uncomfortable in some aspects of dealing with others, but we have to continue to communicate with them. To grow up is to accept social helplessness, to be a decent adult, to know how to endure and give in at the right time, and to be asked to let go of the waywardness of being a child. There is no way to escape from anything that goes wrong, but to face all the complicated interpersonal relationships directly. Society requires us to be kind to others, and peace is the most important thing. With the enrichment of experience, growth will gradually smooth our edges and corners, teach us to restrain our temper, and learn to think from the perspective of different people.
All kinds of tedious things in daily life are the most energy-consuming. Three meals, housework, and the tidiness of the room are all pieces of burden added together. Without my family around, I can only bear the big and small things in life by myself. Everyone has their own living habits. At this time, you may also need to get in touch with roommates in the same dormitory, and you need to pay more attention to your words and deeds.
There are always people in the world who live better than you, and there are always people who are worse than you. Social media certainly beautifies other people's lives, exacerbating our inferiority complex due to comparison day in and day out. In fact, the reality of many people is that they are more than what they are, and they are more than what they are. As an ordinary person, you must understand the principle of "satisfaction and happiness", so that you can be content, grateful and live a happy life.
Everyone is a completely different individual and has experienced a completely different life. You can't empathize, but at least you must know how to respect each other. The external factors of growth are beyond our control, but how to face and solve the problems on the growth path is the key to shaping our character. Because people are responsible for their own lives!