If there is one thing in this world that people have been eager to have, it must be "regret medicine". We have been educated since childhood that we should learn to cherish, but what is often overlooked is also cherishing. We often don't realize how precious it is until we lose it.
We should cherish family affection. What is the most precious thing in the world? gold? diamond? Or the colored bills in your wallet? Maybe ten years ago, I would have thought so. But as time goes by, I gradually grow up. In the process of growing up, I realized that what has been with me since I was a child is the most precious thing in life. People say that banknotes are omnipotent, but growing up told me that the most omnipotent thing in the world is not banknotes, but family affection. It is your lifelong backing, and it will also be your lifelong umbrella that protects you from wind and rain. Cherishing family affection is not difficult. You just need to put down your mobile phone during a rare family gathering, or make a phone call to express condolences to family members you haven't seen for a long time. Life is impermanent, we cannot predict in advance what will happen next, but we can grasp the present moment we have, so that we will not regret it when we are forced to lose it. Cherish family affection and don't let us live in a future that we regret.
We should cherish friendship. If family affection is the first, then I think friendship is the second. It is said that you rely on your parents at home and friends when you go out. I believe that we have all experienced the time when we left our families and went out alone. I think maybe friends are our second family members or second families outside. As the saying goes, "In this world, if there are a thousand kinds of people, there will be a thousand kinds of personalities". Therefore, I think how hard-won it is for us to meet a confidant in this life. Cherishing friendship is actually very simple. We just need to be tolerant and considerate to each other, and when we encounter disputes, we should think about each other's situation and try to understand each other. Never ruin your friendship over small things. How many people have scratched their faces and parted ways because of the friction in getting along. In fact, if you think about it carefully, many things are not so bad at the moment, we just lack calmness in the process. If we can calm down and think, maybe we won't lose this friendship. Cherish friendship, don't let our life lose the second important dawn.
We should cherish the time. Time waits for no one, many times everything changes in the blink of an eye. Because of the arrival of an epidemic, I realized how short life is. Also because of this epidemic, I know the importance of cherishing even more. People can't predict whether the accident or tomorrow will come first, but what we can do is to grasp what we have now, and don't do things that we regret. It is said that "life is only a few decades", why not seize the time to fulfill your dreams or goals? Cherish the time, cherish everything, don't let our life become deserted and purposeless.
As we all know, there is no "regret medicine" in this world. No matter what age you are in, you must cherish the present moment. Do what you want to do, no matter what the result is, but at least you will not regret it. Let our life start from a blank sheet of paper and become full of colors without any regrets. The painting of life requires us to create the most beautiful colors by ourselves.